Sex with Mentally Ill Inmate???

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Old 06-20-2008, 08:16 PM   #21
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Re: Sex with Mentally Ill Inmate???

yes I agree sex is not rape however having sex with a mentally challenged inmate and one is to provide care ,custody and control over. thats just sick. I mash my gas and go fast on land and water, however in my 24 years of corrections I have Never had or wanted to have sex with an Inmate.
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Old 06-21-2008, 03:39 PM   #22
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Re: Sex with Mentally Ill Inmate???

This is so wrong on so many levels.
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Re: Sex with Mentally Ill Inmate???

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"to bang an inmate is bad enough, but to get one that is mentally ill, this guy needs a lot more than 18 months."
He deserves a lot more than 18 months for workplace misbehavior? I see you're not a fan of the concept of proportionality to the offense.

"I hope he has some hard time, and becomes someone girlfriend."
It's interesting how you are outraged by consensual, heterosexual sex, yet you support the horrific atrocity of rape; same-sex rape at that. You, Sir/Madam, are a hypocrite and a morally disgusting human being.

"then he could really learn what prison sex is all about."
He already has learned what prison sex is all about, since he's had it. What does he need to learn about prison rape for? I suppose adulterers, fornicators, prostitutes/johns, and anyone else who falls short of your standards of sexual morality should be raped as well to learn what "sex" is all about.



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Old 06-21-2008, 04:13 PM   #24
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Re: Sex with Mentally Ill Inmate???

Yes, what he did is wrong and he should be punished! BUT once again.....Why the double standard? When female correctional people have relations with male inmates they are allowed to resign and NOT prosecuted? What is equal about that?
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yes I agree sex is not rape however having sex with a mentally challenged inmate and one is to provide care ,custody and control over. thats just sick. I mash my gas and go fast on land and water, however in my 24 years of corrections I have Never had or wanted to have sex with an Inmate.
Which is why Iowa went away from the term RAPE several years ago ....It is now Sexual Abuse...............
And Sexual contact (sexual abuse) with a inmate/patient/ward of the state CONSENTUAL OR NOT is a FELONY. By LAW.
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Re: Sex with Mentally Ill Inmate???

I'm with fedhack.
I've seen several female staff members who were allowed to simply resign instead of being fired, much less prosecuted.
The BOP does this to avoid bad press.
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Re: Sex with Mentally Ill Inmate???

I still don't see how you can keep side stepping the issue that most of us have with this.

Lets take the term inmate or offender out of the post. This man had sex with a MENTALLY ILL AND DIMINISHED CAPACITY PERSON. He took advantage of a person who does not have the mental ability to decide for themselves. For all you know this guy told this MENTALLY ILL person that sex was also called riding a bike. Well.. growing up this person like riding a bike.. it was fun.. sure.. lets "ride a bike."

Is that the consent you were talking about? There is a reason there are ages defined within sexual misconduct laws because (some) most children do not possess the MENTAL CAPACITY to make that decision on their own. Just because the woman in this case was above that age doesn't matter.. the fact that she has DIMINISHED CAPACITY lumps her into the same group as 15 year old girls and younger.

She did not possess all the tools to actually give consent.. thus making this unconsenual by definition and further making it RAPE. Inmate or not.
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Some mentally ill people are perfectly capable of consenting to sex. The OP never specified her IQ; nor did he specify her exact condition and its severity. Not all mentally ill people are retarded or crazy, for all we know she could just have emotional problems or display uncommon behavior. In this day and age, anyone can be labeled "mentally ill", probably to benefit the pharmaceutical industry.

And even if it was rape, so what? Male inmates are raped all the time. What makes her so special, just because she bleeds out of her crotch every month? Rape was OKay before since the victim is a convicted felon, but now all of a sudden it's a big tragedy because the victim is female? That rule only applies to men? That's bullsh*t. If she didn't want to be raped by him, she shouldn't have broken the law-isn't that the rationale used for allowing male inmates to be raped? You asked for equal rights ladies, and you got them!
Are you serious.

They are inmates. That cant consent to sex. It opens a big can of worms to even suggest such a thing. Next you will be saying it is ok for teachers to have consensual sex with their juvenile students.
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Are you serious.

They are inmates. That cant consent to sex. It opens a big can of worms to even suggest such a thing. Next you will be saying it is ok for teachers to have consensual sex with their juvenile students.
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Lets take the term inmate or offender out of the post. This man had sex with a MENTALLY ILL AND DIMINISHED CAPACITY PERSON. He took advantage of a person who does not have the mental ability to decide for themselves. For all you know this guy told this MENTALLY ILL person that sex was also called riding a bike. Well.. growing up this person like riding a bike.. it was fun.. sure.. lets "ride a bike."
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In Iowa that is ALSO A FELONY..........and should be everywhere.

Unfortunately we here in Iowa ususally allow our staff to resign...........but that was before PREA..........now I don';t know what we would do....
We have always wanted to get the facts.............so we normally require the employee to comply with the investigation.............that makes anything they tell us inadmissiable in court.........so we end up not prosecuting either males or females.
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